REFLECTIONS OF A MOTHER

I gave you life, but cannot live it for you.

I can teach you things, but I cannot make

you learn.

I can give you directions, but I cannot be

there to lead you.

I can allow you freedom, but I cannot

account for it.

I can take you to church, but I cannot

make you believe.

I can teach you right from wrong, but I

cannot always decide for you.

I can buy you beautiful clothes, but I

cannot make you beautiful inside.

I can offer you advice, but I cannot

accept it for you.

I can give you love, but I cannot force

it upon you.

I can teach you to share, but I cannot

make you unselfish.

I can teach you respect, but I cannot

force you to show honor.

I can advise you about friends, but

cannot choose them for you.

I can advise you about sex, but I cannot

keep you pure.

I can tell you the facts of life, but I can't

build your reputation.

I can tell you about drinking, but I can't

say "no" for you.

I can warn you about drugs, but I can't

prevent you from using them.

I can tell you about lofty goals, but I can't

achieve them for you.

I can teach you about kindness, but I can't

force you to be gracious.

I can warn you about sins, but I cannot

make you moral.

I can love you as a child, but I cannot

place you in God's family.

I can teach you how to live, but I cannot

give you eternal life.